The Power of Safety: Why Relationships Matter in Early Childhood Education

According to the Thomas B. Fordham Institute, a sense of safety is essential to child development. In a world filled with fire drills, lockdown procedures, and a strained childcare system, ensuring our children feel safe is more critical than ever. When children feel secure, they are free to form meaningful relationships and take bold steps in their intellectual growth.

So, what truly helps children feel safe? The answer begins with caregivers and educators who deeply understand child development. These professionals provide consistent access to nurturing, predictable environments where every child feels a sense of belonging.

At Sioux Falls Lutheran, we know that creating a safe environment doesn’t happen by accident. It requires intentional planning, strong classroom management, and—most importantly—trusting relationships. We equip our teachers with the tools to guide children gently and effectively, especially in difficult moments. Through structured, positive environments and developmentally appropriate expectations, we affirm each child’s individuality while encouraging growth.

When relationships are at the heart of the classroom, students thrive and can experience the joy of learning each day. This is our vision at Sioux Falls Lutheran School–to partner with families to help each child grow in the faithful and bold use of their God-given gifts while providing a safe, faith-filled and academically rich early education. We accomplish this goal by investing in our educators with ongoing professional development, ensuring they are fully prepared to offer a stellar preschool experience—both academically and spiritually.

About the Author
Brenda Bernard has served as the Preschool Director at Sioux Falls Lutheran School since 2019. With 26 years of experience in the Sioux Falls School District as an elementary special education teacher, early childhood program administrator, and special education coordinator, she brings a wealth of knowledge to her role. She has also presented on topics including student and teacher resiliency, classroom management, autism, and dyslexia. Passionate about fostering academic, emotional, and spiritual growth in young learners, Brenda is dedicated to continuous learning and collaboration at SFLS.

About Sioux Falls Lutheran School
Sioux Falls Lutheran School is a family-centered community committed to developing capable Christian servant-leaders who are World Ready and Faith Secure. We provide students with the academic, social, emotional, and spiritual tools they need to thrive in today’s complex world. By maintaining high academic standards, employing exceptional teachers, and upholding a Christian worldview rooted in Scripture, we partner with families to nurture children’s God-given gifts and prepare them for a lifetime of faithful service.

Sources:
https://soldalliance.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/SoLD-Science-Translation_May-2020_FNL.pdf